After Christmas visit 2019

This year, all of our family gathered in between the Christmas and New Year’s holidays.  On Thursday 12/26, Nil arrived!

We had a fantastic visit. Dinner the first night with our friends at the club. Plenty of laughing and stories.  On Saturday we went to a few stores and stopped for lunch in Leesburg then by one of Vino 9 in Waterford for some local IPA beer. Nil enjoyed that last year so we kind of make it a ritual now.  We visited with the owners of Vino 9 who are very knowledgeable about the beers and directed him on what to buy to take home for the boys.  During the day’s discussion, somehow Nil got roped into helping me put our TV on the wall with a mount and a shelf underneath for the cable box.   Back to Best buy to get the needed items. On Sunday we started early putting things together and a few more trips to the hardware store, Luckily Nil “got skills”. He’s a builder by trade and very mechanically inclined.  I must have gotten a little of that and patience for tedious tasks from him. We had a wonderful time even with the un-ending things that kept going wrong he just kept plugging away with a smile.  We finally got it the TV up on the wall and the shelf mounted underneath.  It was exhausting but we finished the project!

On Sunday, Nil headed home in the morning. About an hour and a half later,  Kelly and her Dad Bob Bresnock and husband Terry arrived from PA to visit with us. Morgan and Garrett were coming from New Jersey and got stuck in traffic but they finally got here late day.  We had plenty of food here ready to go but of course, Kelly brought cheese and cracker plates and lots of amazing cookies and candies she made. Kelly is a chef by trade and she loves to do baked goods!  My family came by too- Mom, Don, Deena, Rodney and Luke.  Steve’s Mom Pat came by with more wonderful baked goods! It was a great day of sharing stories and enjoying each other’s company. Here are a few pics from the day!  Until we see each other again, I love you all!







Meet my brother, Doug!

In early 2016, I found my biological family.  On my Mother’s side (Linda Marchand, deceased 2010), I got to meet my Mother’s siblings: Aunt Martha, Uncle Vic and Aunt Jeanne.  Linda has two children, Kelly and Doug. Kelly and I connected right away but Doug and his wife, Amy are not on any social media. Doug learned about me from his Dad, Bob Bresnock.  Doug and I texted for the first time early this year.  We later got on a phone call with Doug, Amy, me and Steve all talking and getting to know each other. Turns out we have alot in common. Doug and Amy are both avid golfers. They live in Home, PA near his sister Kelly and Father, Bob.  Doug and Amy have two children, Alyson and Griffin.DougVisit

We made a plan for them to swing by Virginia on their way to the beach in late summer.  As the day approached I was really nervous but excited to finally meet my half brother on my Mother’s side!  Doug and Amy were so warm and funny. We immediately started chatting and laughing at the same silly jokes.  Alyson, my Niece is an amazing young woman who joined right in with our goofy dialog. Griffin was quiet but most entertained by Maurice. Both were inside and outside most of the visit checking out the yard and critters.  It was a very short visit but I’m so happy to have had the chance to meet my family.  We are in contact and always a stop on the way for anyone passing though Virginia!

Morgan came to town!

A few weekends ago, my niece, Morgan and her friend Garrett were nearby for a wedding. They were able to stop by and see us on the way back to New Jersey!!  Morgan is Kelly’s only daughter.  We really enjoy spending time with these two amazing and hardworking kids. They were here for a few hours where we caught up on the day to day and they did some bird watching from our large picture window. Morgan had never seen as many red cardinals in one place as that tree. We love to watch all of the birds so we have several feeders. Maurice also got plenty of love and Pepper and Tegan were very well behaved too.  I hope to get another visit soon!IMG_1243

It’s been a while….

It’s been almost a year since I last posted an update to the blog.  Lots has occurred. Sadly, last Fall, Aunt Jeanne lost her battle with breast cancer.  It was so sad to have only just found my family, only to lose her 2 years later.  I am blessed that we had time to spend together and get to know each other. There is never going to be enough time so we do the very best that we can.  I’m posting this picture here, in honor of Jeanne. We had one heck of a day that day and the smiles are genuine and the laughter, heartfelt.


Summer Fun Family Time

This weekend was another great gathering of Marchand, Guillet and Lynn families.  Aunt Martha Marchand celebrated her 70th birthday party at the river in Staunton. We’ve been looking forward to the party for weeks!  Luckily, the party weekend lined up nicely with a visit from my Father, Nil. Nil and his sister (Aunt Gloria) drove in from Connecticut on a sunny and bright Friday the 13th of July.  Almost a year from when this all began and we all met for the very first time!  Gloria was meeting Martha in Winchester and staying over there for the weekend, so Nil dropped her off there and then headed another 25 minutes East to Purcellville for our weekend visit.

Friday night, we took Nil to Charlestown Races for dinner and horse races! He was very surprised and delighted. We had an awesome time catching up over dinner while the ponies ran!  We could not pick a winner between the 3 of us so we gave up and went home around 10.

Saturday morning we ran a few errands and I took Nil to see Steve’s folks for a few minutes.  I also introduced him to Nichol’s Hardware. A true destination in Loudoun County. It was hard to get him out of there!  At noon we went to the party about 45 minutes away in Staunton at the pavillion on the river. What a great turnout Aunt Martha had!  My Mom Pat, sister, Deena and great nephew Luke were invited too. It was the first time I’d seen Jeanne, Cecil, Vic and John since Christmas.

In March, we moved from our historic home in Hamilton to a “newer” 1989 built home on the golf course in Purcellville.  That, on top of an extremely busy work schedule,  has kept us hopping. At the party,  I caught up with new friends and family and we all enjoyed watching the kids running around having a ball.

Nil and I headed home before dark where we caught up with Steve. We visited for a few hours sitting on the deck watching the fireflies.  We had a great time catching up. Nil was very helpful with a few minor household projects. Some we completed others we did not (needed more parts!)  What a great weekend.  In the last year, my family has tripled in volume,  but it’s a great, warm feeling that everyone gets along and includes each other on the gatherings. I could not ask for a better outcome or response from such loving, wonderful and caring people. All of them…my family.

Until we all meet again!

Happy Anniversary!

Many wonderful anniversaries to celebrate in June.

On June 5th, 1999, I married my soul mate, Steve Gaitten. We celebrated our 19th year of marriage this year. We are having the time of our lives!

On June 22, 2017 , I got “the call” from my Aunt Martha. You know, the one where she said- “hello, Kelly. You were born 9/27/1966 and you have a heart murmur. We’ve been looking for you”. A year ago this week I began connecting with my biological family. First, with contact through my Aunt Martha, My Aunt Jeanne and my Uncle Victor. My Mother’s brothers and sisters all gathered around me and made feel most welcome. They had been searching for me but under the name Tracy Dawn Marchand. They did not know I was named Kelly Louise by my loving Mother and Father who adopted me.  Kelly Louise Lynn (now Gaitten), These are the only names I’ve ever known.

Martha, Jeanne, Me on the first row, John, Steve and Vic on second row
Me and my biological Dad- Nil Guillet!! I was his birthday surprise last year!
My half brothers, Ryan and Cory!



This blog is named for Kelly, my half sister who is 4 years younger.  Also, it’s to celebrate each and every family member I’ve found- who shares my DNA and all of my family who love me but do not share my DNA.  Family, what a gift!

This post is to also to acknowledge and celebrate a year of connecting with my new family. My Father, Nil, my brothers, Ryan and Cory and their amazing wives Kristen and Brittany and all of their beautiful children.  To having found my new Nieces and Nephews and Aunts and Uncles!

Kelly Louise and Kelly Marie!

My sister Kelly, my Niece Morgan and Kelly’s husband, Terry and her Father, Bob.  I love you all. I could not imagine how I would feel on the day I found you, but today the joy is still overwhelming in my heart. I am the luckiest girl in the world. Not only because I found you but because my family immediately grew bigger and better than ever before. Every day I learn something new, every day, I appreciate my life and all I’ve been blessed with. Looking back so far…it’s been an amazing journey. I can’t wait to see what tomorrow brings. Happy Anniversary, indeed.

Father’s Day

So many months have passed since I wrote an update! Many things have happened. All good! We sold our lovely Victorian home in Hamilton and moved 6 miles West to Purcellville in March. Our new house was built in 1989, it’s not new but it’s new to us after living in a 150 year old home.  For us, it’s like living in a 5 star hotel.  We miss our old home but we LOVE our new one!!  On top of an already busy real estate season, we added a move.  Somehow, we got it all done. My Mom and sister were a huge help. I could not have done it without them. I worked every single day with appointments and clients. I only really took one day off (move day) and then got right back to work. My Mom and sister unpacked most of our boxes and stocked and organized my closet for me while I was out with clients.  I could find all of my clothes and shoes!!  Then, within a week of moving into our new home, we had the interior painted, a fence put up for the dogs and a shed installed. It’s literally been a whirlwind. Did I mention this has been the busiest Spring market…ever? We hope to have an open house and invite all of the family and friends very soon.

The new house “Peppie’s Place on Pinehurst”

We had a cookout for Mother’s day but it rained. It’s been a wet Spring that has rolled into the first week of summer. Sigh….

This year, Father’s day snuck right up on me. I’ve been in contact with all of my newly found family as much as I can. With this schedule I don’t have time to go anywhere. We cancelled our vacation in February and have been running flat out ever since!

I text or talk with Kelly now every week or so- she’s really busy too, but we reach out when we have a moment. I try to call Nil weekly. I email regularly with Aunt Martha. I text, email or Facebook with Jeanne and Vic. I miss everyone!

Nil was planning to visit us in June but schedules are not aligning.  I was able to call and visit with him on the phone on Sunday to wish him a Happy Father’s Day. A first for both of us. He was at Ryan’s house with all of the family in Connecticut. We had a great conversation and put out some dates for a visit. He has not seen the new house yet. It has an amazing and deck overlooking the golf course! He’s going to love it.  We hope to see him in early July. The guest room is all ready!

More updates soon, I promise!